“Depend upon it, sir, when a man knows
he is to be hanged in a fortnight, it concentrates his mind wonderfully”
Samuel Johnson
 
 
There certainly seems to be an
added edge to the prose of writers who, whether for scientific or personal
reasons, turn their attention to old age and the prospect of one's life ending. 
I last blogged on
the subject all of three years ago and a recent conversation with one of my
daughters has moved me to have another look at the dozen or so books on this
topic on my bookshelves – and to track down a few for inclusion in the
virtual library. So the core of this post is actually an analysis of the 20 or
so books I know on the subject – inspired also, I suspect, by my reading last
week of the very poetic “My Father’s Wake”
Given the rise in both numbers
and purchasing power of the “Wrinklies”, it is perhaps surprising that we have
not attracted more innovation (if that’s not a contradiction in terms) – in fields
such as housing, euthanasia and burial, let alone politics….
We do need to give more thought to how we will leave this life - but we
fail to do so….both as individuals and collectively…Perhaps the title I’ve been
using for one unfinished set of collected thoughts – “Dispatches
to the Next Generation” – is one small gesture in that direction.  Of course its focus on the mess we in the older generation have made of
the world makes for a completely different sort of book than those analysed
below. The hyperlinks generally give useful reviews - and sometimes the book itself...
 
Books
about Ageing and the approach of Death
Title 
 | 
  
Year 
 | 
  
Genre 
 | 
  
Comment 
 | 
  
Links 
 | 
 
The American Way of Death; Jessica Mitford 
 | 
  
1963 
 | 
  
journalism 
 | 
  
Analysis of the crematorium business 
 | 
  |
On Death and Dying; Elizabeth Kuebler-Ross 
click to get the entire book 
 | 
  
1969 
 | 
  
psychology 
 | 
  
The book that gave us the “five stages
  of grief” 
 | 
  
This
  extended interview with the author is quite superb  
 | 
 
The Coming of Age; Simone de Beauvoir 
 | 
  
1970 French 
version 
 | 
  
Breaks all disciplinary barriers! 
 | 
  
The classic 
 | 
  |
The Denial of Death; Ernest Becker 
 | 
  
1973 
 | 
  
Cultural anthropology 
 | 
  
A “psycho-philosophical synthesis” –
  all 330 pages 
 | 
  
Hyperlink on title gives full book 
 | 
 
The Loneliness of The Dying by Norbert Elias 
 | 
  
1985 
 | 
  
sociology 
 | 
  
A short rather general book by an
  underrated Anglo-German   
 | 
  |
The End of Age
  – BBC Reith Lectures by Tom Kirkwood 
 | 
  
2001 
 | 
  
Gerontology 
 | 
  
Link on the title gives podcasts 
 | 
  |
Ammonites
  and Leaping Fish – a Life in Time Penelope Lively 
 | 
  
2003 
 | 
  
Memoir  
 | 
  ||
Nothing to be Frightened Of; Julian Barnes 
 | 
  
2007 
 | 
  
Extended essay 
 | 
  
Good on references 
 | 
  
A rather gentle way into the subject nicely
  reviewed here 
 | 
 
Somewhere Towards the End; Diana Athill 
 | 
  
2008 
 | 
  
Memoir  
 | 
  
Marvellous writer covers latter stages of a long life 
 | 
  
Click the title for the entire book 
 | 
 
The Long Life; Helen Small  
 | 
  
2007 
 | 
  
Literary 
 | 
  
Written by a Professor of English
  language and literature 
 | 
  
Compendium of writing about ageing over
  2000 years. A good review
  here 
 | 
 
2011  
 | 
  
Popular science  
 | 
  
Professor of Biology 
Age 80 when he wrote it 
 | 
  ||
2012 
 | 
  
philosophy 
 | 
  
Philosopher who knows how to tell a
  great tale 
 | 
  
Click on title for full book  
good review
  here 
 | 
 |
2013 
 | 
  
sociology 
 | 
  
Almost an update of de Beauvoir! 
 | 
  ||
Being Mortal – illness, medicine and what matters in
  the end; by Atul Gawande 
 | 
  
2015 
 | 
  
Reflective medical 
 | 
  
a very literate and humane American
  surgeon, 
 | 
  |
2014 
 | 
  
Humour 
 | 
  
was the most famous British campaigner
  of the second half of the century. 
 | 
  ||
| 
 | 
  
2015 
 | 
  
philosophy 
 | 
  
retired British gerontologist, poet and
  polymath  
 | 
  |
2015 
 | 
  
psychology 
 | 
  
American psychologists update and
  popularise Becker’s thesis about our repression of death 
 | 
  ||
“Smoke
  Gets in Your Eyes: and Other Lessons from the Crematorium” Caitlin Doughty  
 | 
  
2015 
 | 
  
journalism 
 | 
  ||
2017 
 | 
  
journalism 
 | 
  
Poetic but doesn’t deal with issues 
 | 
  ||
2017 
 | 
  
medical 
 | 
  
A “palliative” doctor profiles in depth
  her patients 
 | 
  
 | 
 |
The Way we Die Now; Seamus O’Mahony 
 | 
  
2017 
 | 
  
medical 
 | 
  
A Consultant “Gastroenterologist”  
 | 
  
Every
  Third Death – life, death and the endgame; Robert McCrum 
 | 
  
2017 
 | 
  
Literary journalist 
 | 
  
An extended essay – with a nice little bibliography 
 | 

